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In memory of those who have Crossed the Bar
WHALEY, Ronald - age 90, passed away peacefully surrounded by family at Kelowna General Hospital on the 29th of September 2025.
Born on the 3rd of August 1935 in Trail, BC to Elizabeth and John Whaley, Ron was raised in Trail and joined the Royal Canadian Navy in 1953 as an underwater weapons technician. Shortly after arriving in Victoria, he met the love of his life, Doreen, on the 9th of April 1956, courting each other for eight months, marrying on the 29th of December 1956.
Displaying exceptional leadership, knowledge and skill, Ron was rapidly promoted to Petty Officer 1st Class. Retiring from the Navy in 1974, Ron moved to his hometown of Trail with his young family, embarking on his second career at the Trail Regional hospital in the maintenance department, where he was employed for over 20 years. After retiring from the hospital, he and Doreen moved to Westbank, BC to be closer to their daughters and families.
Ron could always be found volunteering in his community, wherever he lived. He was very involved in women’s ice hockey, and was a longtime coach and manager of the Trail Smokettes. It was with the Smokettes that he participated in the BC Winter Games/Provincials numerous times. Ron; with a twinkle in his eye, played Santa Claus for many years at the extended care unit of the Trail Regional Hospital. He was also an active member of the Chiefs and Petty Officers’ Association in Victoria. When not volunteering, he could be found gardening, golfing, or playing pool. Over the last several years Ron spent most of his time with his devoted wife.
Ron was very humble, and respected by many amongst him. He always wore his heart on his sleeve. Ron's wittiness, humour and memory of events will never be forgotten. He will be missed dearly by all of those who were fortunate to have him in their lives.
Ron is survived by his beloved wife, Doreen; their three children, Denise (Scott), Karen (Lance), and Daryl (Heather); four amazing grandchildren, Garnet, Sally, Morgan and Rachel; and great grandson, Grayson (affectionately known as “Sport” by Ron); along with several nieces and nephews. He was predeceased by his father, John; mother, Elizabeth; brothers, George, Jim, Fred and Jack; and son-in-law, Scott.
Ron’s family would like to thank the very supportive health care team at Kelowna General Hospital and those who have sent condolences, thoughts and prayers in this time of deep sorrow.
A private cremation will take place, with scattering of ashes at a late date. Your thoughts and memories are appreciated. (Providence Funeral Homes & Crematorium)
Ships served in: HMCS DISCOVERY - Enlisted in the RCN 18 Nov 1954 HMCS CORNWALLIS - 1954 HMCS NADEN - 1955. This was his first draft to NADEN. He served at NADEN 4 other times over his career. HMCS STETTLER - 1995 - 1958 HMCS VENTURE - 1958 HMCS OTTAWA 1959 - 1960 HMCS FRASER - 1961 - 1963 HMCS ANTIGONISH - 1964 HMCS OTTAWA - 1964 - 1965 HMCS YUKON - 1965 - 1966 HMCS YUKON - 1968 - 1969 as a Petty Officer 2nd Class Weaponman Underwater, C.A.F. (Navy) HMCS MIRAMICHI - 1970 HMCS COLUMBIA - 1971 -1973 CFB ESQUIMALT - Release Centre // Honourably Released 01 Feb 1975
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